10 Phrases that All Athletes Need to Hear from Parents

John Couture

As a parent, we often wonder what is the best thing to say to our child on the car rides to and from practice and games.

1.    Tell me about it!

•  Them, not you.  Let them speak- whatever is important to them will be discussed.

2.    Tell me about your dreams!

• Let them dream big and set goals- from their own minds

3.    I love to watch you play!

•  Simply enjoy the game- don’t keep score.

4.    I believe in you!

• Confidence in them will go a long way with their confidence in themselves.

5.    I am proud of you!

• They should know that you are proud of them, not their stats.

6.    You got this!

• Pushing their adversity is a strength for all athletes.

7.    Well done!

• Celebrate small victories.  Helping them see small victories that are not in the stat sheet will give them a sense of achievement.

8.    I am sorry.

• Recognizing your child’s feelings is acceptable.   Support and show them love.

9.    How can I help?

• Ask them what you can do to help, but let them take the lead.

10.    You are making great progress!

• When accomplishments are achieved, acknowledge them.

Parent support is the fuel for champions.